Your Next Steps If Divorce is On the Table in 2026

As we begin preparing for 2026, many people are reconsidering their relationships and where they spend their energy. If you’re starting the year wondering if divorce is the right path for you, you’re not alone. While divorce can be incredibly difficult and painful, it can also bring you relief if your marriage has been a source of stress for you. This is the time to talk to a divorce attorney and start gathering information so you can plan for whatever comes next.

When you choose a divorce lawyer in California, it’s important to talk to someone who can fully brief you on all of your options. At the Law Office of Taylor B. Warner, APLC, we are committed to helping clients navigate their family law issues no matter how simple or complex they may be. Attorney Taylor B. Warner, a California Bar Certified Family Law Specialist, helps clients navigate divorce in a way that fits their needs and future goals. Call our divorce law firm at 909-466-5575 to discuss your next steps now.

Get a Clear Picture of Your Starting Point

Being fully informed makes it much easier to know how to move forward. California is a community property state, which means that just about everything earned or acquired during a marriage belongs to both spouses. Before filing, talking to your spouse, or opening a new bank account, get an overview of your financial situation. Get copies of paystubs, tax returns, bank statements, mortgage and vehicle loan documents, credit card statements, any prenups or postnups you may have signed, and any proof you have of separate property.

Review the Process and Talk to an Attorney

Each state’s divorce process is slightly different, which is why we recommend meeting with a divorce law firm fairly early in the process. Generally, you file the divorce petition, have your spouse served, request temporary orders from the court, and then work towards an agreement. This involves coming up with custody arrangements, child support agreements, and a fair division of assets. It’s also important to note that California has a mandatory six-month waiting period, so six months from the date of your divorce filing is the earliest your divorce will be granted.

Consider Your Children’s Best Interests As You Make Plans

If you and your spouse share children, early planning is crucial. Your custody and support arrangements must serve your children’s best interests. You may want to spend some time thinking about:

• Each parent’s work schedule and how that may influence custody arrangements
• Who makes educational and healthcare decisions
• Preferred long-term schedules and how much time each parent should get

In general, California courts prefer parenting arrangements that give both parents substantial time with their children. This is also supported by research into child development and behavior. However, the courts also recognize that there are situations where this won’t work, so you should think about what your spouse may want and what is reasonable for both of you.

Protect Your Finances

You don’t want to end up on the hook for anything that isn’t yours or wind up with an unsustainable budget simply because you didn’t plan. Avoid making any major financial changes during this time and keep an eye on your credit cards and credit reports for any new debt from your spouse. This is also a good time to create a personal budget that would work for you post-divorce.

Explore Alternatives to Litigation

A growing number of divorces don’t go through the traditional process of litigating every single topic and hashing private topics out in court. Family mediation, collaborative divorce, and settlements negotiated with attorneys on both sides offer more peaceful alternatives to litigation. Your divorce attorney can learn more about the nature of your marriage and split to explain which options may be best suited to you.

Take Care of Yourself

This is an incredibly difficult time. Hanging out in the space between divorce and staying together can be mentally draining. Take the time you need to care for yourself and make a decision based on what is right for you and your future.

Discuss Your Options With a Divorce Lawyer Now

At the Law Office of Taylor B. Warner, we’re here to help you make the most of this new chapter in life. Call us at 909-466-5575 or reach out online to schedule a consultation now.

Taylor Warner

Taylor has always been an advocate. Growing up the middle child with an older and a younger brother, Taylor developed a strong voice and personality and has always felt strongly about helping others. Becoming a lawyer seemed to fit Taylor’s personality and character – she is a strong leader and a bold advocate. Learn more here.